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Keep your fantasies alive for a fulfilling sex life

Balendu explains the importance of sexual fantasies for active sexual enjoyment. http://www.balendu....

Sex on the first date?

Read why Balendu thinks it should be no rule not to have sex on the first date - but also not a must...

Don't use sex to gain a relationship

Balendu talks about sex that is sometimes used to force another person into a relationship, as it is...

A fake media world creating wrong ideals in girls' minds

As a father, Balendu considers how he wants his daughter to grow up with values, knowing that the...

Sexual Fantasy of watching and being watched - not only as...

Listen to a humorous but still relevant idea of sharing your sex life not only with your partner. ht...

Longer, louder, better - does porn help your sex life?

Balendu explains how porn can actually create arousal and thus increase the desire to have sex - but h...

Jealousy comes from insecurity, not from love

Why jealousy is not a sign of love but of fear to lose the other one. Balendu tells how it is also...

Don't bring your office to the bedroom!

Balendu tells how it can affect even your love life if you bring emails, work talk and more not only...

Be ready to accept change

When time, experience or science shows you that you were wrong, don't fight - but accept and go like...

Anger Management - stop hitting that cushion!

Balendu explains why letting out your anger does not reduce but instead increase aggression. https:/...

Multiple Sexual Relations - a Question of Honesty, not Morality

Balendu talks about monogamy and high libido, how there are no excuses for cheating and polygamy hap...

Know what you want - and don't be shy to say it!

"Let me think about it" - Balendu reflects the two reasons why someone says this sentence. https://w...

Why it is necessary to talk about sex

Balendu tells why he is not afraid to talk about a topic that not everyone talks about - and why he ...

Independence and freedom for a happy relationship

Balendu tells how it can feel 'too much' if the partner's happiness completely depends on you....

Sexual Relations with Multiple People - why it is not unnatural

Do you have the desire for more than just your partner? Balendu tells why this doesn't make you a bad person...

Don't expect your partner to read your mind!

Balendu explains why we need to express our wishes and expectations in order to avoid disappointment...

Can you love several people - and sleep with them, too?

Balendu tells of a counseling session with a lady in a special situation. https://www.balendu.net...